Today is Tuesday, May 20th.
Our oldest son was born 19 years ago today. He was the "baby" and only son for 9 years. With the arrival of first, Christopher, and then Abigail, Darrell went from being the baby to being our middle child. I'd say he handles it well. Particularly since that's a real see-saw position in our family.
Once his older sisters left the nest, Darrell took on the role of "oldest" child here at home. Now that he's in college he's on his own at school and only home now and then. That's when Christopher tries on the "oldest child" hat.
Even now as I write this, Darrell's in the air over Georgia on his way to Florida for a week. The tough thing about this stage of his life (for us at home) is the coming-and-going. Just when we get used to having him home, he's gone again. Abbey and Christopher don't like the goodbyes all the time (me, either, truth be told) but at least he gets home and we have just as many "hellos" preceding the "goodbyes."
He's a wonderful young man and I'm so very proud of him. He's all heart and cares deeply about his family and friends. All through his childhood and teens he always told me he'd never be embarrassed to walk with me and hold my hand - no matter how old either of us got. So far he's stayed true to his word.
Darrell, there's so much more I could write, Sweetheart. I don't want to embarrass you here so I'll be good and keep it short. Just know that you're loved so very much. I thank God for you each day. I know your birthday didn 't get off to a great start, and I'm sorry about that. I'm just glad you're better now and able to make your trip. We'll celebrate when you get back (sans Pepto!).
Mom
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